Slaves are available to bathe you, shave you, etc., and the property features pony-play equipment and a schwanendreher, or outdoor spit. The main guest room is equipped with an X-shaped cross, hanging ropes, clamps, shackles, handcuffs and fresh flowers, but you can also rent out the 1,250-square-foot dungeon (complete with whipping post, stocks, gas masks, ball stretchers, branding irons and more) for an overnight stay. Once you pass the initial screening, Master R and Mistress Collette will design a visit to meet your needs. Wanna-be masters and slaves can also book a primer at La Domaine Esemar (51, ), the world’s oldest BDSM training facility. “Plus, it’s homey.” Just remember: When booking a heterosexual couple-play session, it must be the female half who arranges it-even if she’s the sub. “We have experienced people,” says owner Richard Winsjean. Best for couplesĬouples can dig into a session with select dommes at Mistress Elizabeth’s (25 W 38th St between Fifth and Sixth Aves 21, ), a dungeon outfitted with the usual torture devices: violet wands, rattan canes, even a vintage dental chair. The gathering is ideal for beginners and conveniently located near Paddles (250 W 26th St between Seventh and Eighth Aves 21, ), the city’s “friendliest” club for spanking, cross-dressing and other sub-dom shenanigans. Save face and “just wear black,” says Wolf.Īnother option is the NY Apple Munch ( ), which meets the third Friday of every month at the BDSM-friendly Moonstruck Diner (400 W 23rd St at Ninth Ave, 21 Oct 16 at 7pm, free). Show up in some corseted, ball-gagged contraption, and you may feel like a fool. First-timer tip: Don’t overthink your wardrobe. “It’s a pansexual group with membership in the hundreds.” Newbies can wet their feet at TES’s Novice Excursion, led by Lady D & Bo on the third Saturday of every month at Chelsea Gallery (72 Seventh Ave between 14th and 15th Sts Oct 17 9:30-10:30pm, free). “It’s the 500-pound gorilla of the NYC BDSM scene,” says kink educator and queer sadomasochist Sarah Sloane. The Eulenspiegel Society, otherwise known as TES ( tes.org), is a not-for-profit that promotes sexual liberation and education. “But there are different definitions of sex.”What does this mean for all you curious types? Finding a dungeon, play party or private mistress/master is a tricky (but not impossible) undertaking. “Police kept coming in, saying that sex was happening,” says BDSM educator Lolita Wolf ( ). New York used to be a haven for the BDSM community, but with the cops raiding spaces like Rapture NYC and the Nutcracker Suite over the past few years, the scene has gone all but mute.

The seven rooms of Pandora's Box include the Medical Chamber and China Doll Room.

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